This piece was published in Pennsylvania Outdoor Journal a year or two ago.
Every Kid Would Love
to Fish
When I see a youngster fishing with a
parent, I consider that child lucky whether he or she catches anything or not.
Every three to five-year-old introduced to fishing loves it. The first good-size largemouth my son caught at age three, a 13-incher, seemed to give him
the sense that the world is his for the plucking, and to care for as well, as
he released a living creature himself. When he grew just a little older, he
wanted to fish almost every day after pre-school. And I was willing to take him
for an hour or two a couple or several evenings a week after work. Since he
truly loved to fish, his total intent was infectious and I found my own desire
to fish fully reawakening after a 25-year slump. Suddenly he caught as
many bass as I did, a five-year-old with masterful finesse of plastic
worms.
I had done something right in how I
had introduced him to fishing. And from that advantage he had developed very
much by his own efforts, yet by always being visible to me, and with me as his
own source of know-how.
At ages two and three, a parent or
guardian needs to do all the casting for a youngster. Not only is such a young
child simply too small to put a bait or lure out there, he has very little idea
yet of the pursuit, the placing of the lure or bait where a fish might be. Buy
him a rod of his own. Cast for him. The ideal lure for bass, if you’re not using
nightcrawlers or shiners, is the plastic worm since you can help him retrieve
it slowly. Let him reel in a fish; help him if it’s big.
I went ahead and built for my five-year-old a 3 ½-foot spinning rod for trout, the same size rod I use with
salmon eggs. When he was three, I cast salmon eggs for him on the same rod he
used for bass, and he caught some trout. He had not yet caught a “pickerel
pike,” at five; but he felt very eager to do so. So late in April I took him to
a pond I knew had pickerel in it, and baited his hook with live shiners. He
caught one that afternoon, all he needed to fill his day.
Kids are interested in catching all
kinds of fish. My son is 12 now and hasn’t yet caught a carp, very much wants
to. Without time to fish for carp early this past fall, I did at least buy a mulberry
purple bait concoction and gave it to him to add to his wide selection of lures
and tackle, a promise that we will go this next year. It’s important to show
kids very different methods that varieties of fish species require to be
caught. By age three a boy or a girl has a rudimentary grasp of many
differences of approach; how it is you fish should be pointed out. So
long as a three-year-old grasps that there is a way to do it, by the time he is
five he may be on top his game with at least one method, and possibly more.
By the time a child is six, have him
learn to tie knots. Kids this age become interested in such skills, want to do
such things. To know the Uncle Homer knot or the uni or both are notches they
can cut on their belts. It’s the same with different lures and methods. A six-year-old wants to know how to use these devices so fascinating to him.
As long as you relate to him at least one way to use each of the lures he owns,
he has a basis on which to build upon variations of method. Tell him there’s
more than one way to do, but show him at least one way.
For example, with weightless plastic
worms I told my son to cast and count slowly to 20 before he twitched the worm
off the bottom, then to count to 10 and twitch it again by moving the rod tip
about a foot or two, and so on. He got that down pat after a couple of outings.
Seeing this under control, I told him so. Always confirm with your
son or daughter that he or she has it right:
“By now you know what 20 seconds feels like, don’t you think?”
“Yeah.”
“So now just fish that plastic worm
by what feels right.”
And as I noted earlier in the
article, he was a young master in his fifth year, very intent upon
catching fish while watching his dad doing just that. So, besides how I instructed
him, he imitated me. The best you can
do for your son or daughter is be an active, open model from whom he or she can
learn by observing.
As kids grow older, all sorts of
other life influences draw them in many other directions. Fishing for them may
seem removed from the mainstream of life. And we older adults always used to
speak glowingly of getting away from it all. Today kids don’t seem as much to
share that value of getting outside; they seem to want to be very much with
their generation’s technological involvement. However, older kids are very
environmentally aware. If you train them to recognize that equipment, tackle,
methods, approaches, environmental appreciation, and successes are like any
other endeavor in life, they might understand, as they grow even older, and
that they really got their basic education and appreciation of life out fishing
with dad.
Matt's Uncle Jim points out how to use a particular camera.
Start em Young,Bro.
ReplyDeleteStart em Young,Bro.
ReplyDeleteAnd it's amazing how they pick up on it like nothing to it.
DeleteMy grandson came carp fishing last season. Hes16. Took some pics,and really seemed more intersected in that. Said ,do you want to come again .No. boring ,he replied. Oh well,can't win em All. Best wishes ,bud. !
ReplyDeleteMy grandson came carp fishing last season. Hes16. Took some pics,and really seemed more intersected in that. Said ,do you want to come again .No. boring ,he replied. Oh well,can't win em All. Best wishes ,bud. !
ReplyDeleteMy son is 17 now, and he will fish with me. Took him to Salmon River last fall. As is typical, his interest peaked. (He actually caught a nice steelhead on fly rod.) He spoke of fly casting the river that flows through town this spring, but he shows no interest now. He's a math wiz. I always knew, when his brain changed at about age 14, things would change. It was different for me as a teen, because fishing is what I did. Academics is what he does. But as a four and five-year-old, he constantly had me take him fishing, and that's how I got back into fishing so much.
DeleteGreat piece!
ReplyDeleteThought you would really like the photo--it came right into focus--but I'm very happy you like the words. It's the sort of thing "I" didn't write and seems anyone can appreciate. But of course I did. Those afternoons at Sunrise Lake where Matt mastered the worm got me back into fishing so much. Matt did.
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